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www.beabuddynotabully.org
  "Be a Buddy, Not a Bully" campaign

A program to create a climate of safety in schools

by Bill Murray - http://www.beabuddynotabully.org

Sometimes the simplest ideas are the most powerful. Here's one that's so good we just have to promote it on our web site.

Anti-bullying campaigns have been springing up all over the country, as people have begun to recognize that childhood peer-to-peer abuse, previously seen as a simple and relatively harmless right-of-passage activity, can cause a young person serious and lasting damage, driving some to go as far as suicide.

Little 9 year old Isabella Griffin, an elementary school student in Colorado, had been a victim of bullying herself, mostly based on ridicule of her clothing. Even more upsetting was her observation that several other classmates were also being bullied.

She went online to research the issue, eventually bringing her father the results .. a 20 document that constituted not only a study of the problem, but a proposed solution, her "Be a Buddy, Not a Bully" campaign.

Jon Griffin was so impressed with his young daughter's work that he helped her present her plan to the Alameda School Board in St Luis County, which promptly approved the project for its students (K-5).

Kids and their supporters, including parents, teachers and other caregivers, will be invited to sign a pledge promising to put a stop to bullying. After signing, each participant is given a distinctive blue bracelet to wear around the school, symbolizing a commitment to stand up to offending kids.

"It entitles the kids to actually step in," her father said.

This past summer Randi Weingarden, President of the American Federation of Teachers which runs their own " See a Bully, Stop a Bully" campaign, noted that about 10% of kids bully and 10% of kids are victimized, but the vast majority, fully 80% of students, stand by when the bullying occurs, not wanting to get involved.

Isabella Griffin's program takes advantage of this group, because signing her pledge includes a promise to intercede and / or report bullying as it occurs.

According to Ms. Weingarden, about 13 million American children are bullied each year, pointing out that youngsters who bully should raise a red flag. Their action may be a cry for help.

She says ending peer-abuse and persecution will take 1) awareness, 2) education and 3) intervention strategies.

The School Board approved program in Isabella's area is starting up in early December, and they are still putting their materials together. We've joined their "Be a Buddy" Facebook page, saying that as soon as possible, we'll want the text they're using for the PLEDGE itself (and any related documents).

We believe this simple campaign can be easily duplicated around the country by schools that wish to create an environment of safety for students, and put an end to this peer-to-peer abuse.

Here's the link to their new web site: http://www.beabuddynotabully.org

Here's where to write for more info on the original project: bella.beabuddy@gmail.com

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Ordering Anti-Bullying Wrist Bands:

American Federation of Teachers
Anti-Bully Bands

When students see their teachers or anyone wearing an Anti-Bully wristband, it serves as a signal to students that they are not alone, that school is a safe haven, and that they can turn to and depend on their educators and wristband wearers to deal with bullying or harassment.
  bully band

Wristbands at the time of this writing were free for AFT affiliates (member teachers), $1 each for non-members, or $15 per set of 25.

Here's the AFT "bully" page: http://www.aft.org/bully

More AFT Anti-Bully info - http://www.aft.org/position/bullying-prevention/frequently-asked-questions-bullying-prevention
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Isabella's "Be a Buddy, Not a Bully" page on Facebook:

http://www.facebook.com/be.a.buddy03

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